If David Mitchell can get off drugs and turn his life around, anyone can. That’s the message he’ll share with anyone who needs to hear it. David now works for the Canadian Mental Health Association as the general manager of Warmland House, the emergency shelter and transitional housing complex in Duncan. Twenty years ago, he lived on the streets of Victoria and used intravenous heroin heavily.
That last winter before he sobered up, he’d use every day in a gas station bathroom, and have a conversation with himself in the mirror: “I would say, ‘You know what, you’ve never hated anybody, not really hated anybody. But you hate that guy. How come? You never really wanted to destroy anybody’s family, but you wanted to destroy that guy’s family intentionally. You’ve never wanted to kill anybody, but you’re deliberately trying to kill him. Unless you make friends with him, you’re dead.’”
It took daily effort to come to the point where it felt like David and the man in the mirror were on the same team, he says. That, plus a little luck, some compassion from strangers and a lot of help, brought him to where he is today.
Now he uses the lessons from his own journey to walk with others down their own paths. One of the keys, he says, is to be sure to let them lead the way. “If we start walking in front of them, that’s not going to be any good for us or them. If we start doing more work than them, that’s another thing that’s not good. They need to do the work, we need to be the support.”
He says he’s seen more successes at Warmland than other shelters he’s worked at. He attributes that to the team of support — made up of Warmland staff and others — that wraps itself around individuals who are ready to receive it.
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In your own words
Last week I published my investigation into the death of Chris Bloomfield, shot by police in his home near Shawnigan Lake in November 2018. I want to thank everyone who took the time to read, share and respond.
One email I received really opened my eyes to what a radically compassionate response to people in crisis might look like. Chloé Hemsworth gave me permission to share it with you all. Here it is:
I did not know Chris, but he could have been any of my friends. Having watched others going through these drug induced experiences, the last people I would want to show up to help would be anyone from any kind of institution. No cops, no nurses, no mental health workers. It’s a matter of the spirit, and who I would want help from is spiritual leaders, healers, shamans. People who understand and are not judging and are reaching out to your spirit. They are working on having healers available to people in hospitals alongside western medicine, and perhaps it’s time that the same happened with the police force. The police are humans too; they have fears and things they don’t understand. Compassion goes a long way. Education and lining up the right people to respond to such situations is key if we are to move forward as a society. All it takes sometimes is that one person who is in tune to completely turn a situation around. My heart goes out to all those who were touched by Chris. His death was not in vain and is causing a much needed ripple in the fabric of how we approach and understand what many people are going through.
Thank you, Chloé, for sharing.
- June 6: Join award-winning journalist Dahr Jamail for a talk on his new book, The End of Ice. The event is an opportunity for discussion and to learn about One Cowichan’s local climate action campaign.
- June 8: It’s Low Tide Day at Kil-pah-las (Cowichan Bay). Join the Cowichan Estuary Nature Centre for a beach clean up, lunch and marine science fun for the whole family.
- June 8: Celebrate love at the Cowichan Valley Youth Pride Parade, a march from rainbow crosswalk to rainbow crosswalk in Duncan.
- June 8: Join the Lila Community Choir for Sing for the Trees, a concert and fundraiser for Where Do We Stand, a group that advocates for democratic participation in decisions related to North Cowichan’s municipal forests.
News of the week
- One of the City of Duncan’s totem poles has been restored to its former glory, the Cowichan Valley Citizen reports. Coast Salish artist Herb Rice, one of the original carvers of the “Transformation of Man” pole, replaced rotted wood, carved new eagle wings and gave the totem a fresh layer of paint.
- The B.C. government has announced funding for 161 new child care spaces in Cowichan, slated to open early next year, the Cowichan Valley Citizen reports. The Cowichan Valley Regional District is working on a study to assess need and make a plan for child care across the region.
- Water levels in Cowichan Lake are dire, the Cowichan Valley Citizen reports. If significant rainfall doesn’t come, there may be no water stored behind the Cowichan weir by July or August. That could mean many things, including the necessity of pumping water out of the lake into the river, destruction of fish habitat and potentially a shut down of the paper mill in Crofton, which relies on river water for its operations.